In the previous post I’ve discussed how the younger part of our society chooses gifts for people they love. Obviously these two groups have more limitations than the adults and seniors who earn their own money and are actually able to splash out on a variety of presents. Today I’ll talk a bit more about the way the grown ups and our beloved seniors make their decisions on choosing gifts.
I’m a grown up myself so I believe that if adult people want to give presents to their loved ones, they put a lot of thought into it – that’s what I do for sure!. I’d think about what the person likes, what makes them happy, and what will make them feel loved and appreciated.One reason why I focus on choosing the right presents is because I want to show my loved ones how much I care about them and that is what I think most mature people would do. Giving a gift is a way of expressing love and gratitude. It’s a way of saying, “I appreciate you,” or “I’m thinking of you.” When people care about someone, they want to make them happy, and giving a thoughtful gift is one way to do that.Another reason why we put effort into choosing gifts is because we want to make the person feel special. We want our present to be meaningful and memorable. It’s not just about giving something for the sake of giving, you know what I mean?; it’s about giving something that will be cherished and remembered for a long time.
From my perspective we also consider the interests and hobbies of our loved ones when choosing gifts. We love to give something that the person will enjoy and use. For example, if someone loves cooking, a new cookbook or kitchen gadget might be the perfect gift. If someone is passionate about art, a set of high-quality paintbrushes or a sketchbook could be ideal. But choosing that special present also requires getting to know the recipient or having a bond with him or her – that is something that adults can do – learn about the tastes, hobbies, passions of the people they want to give a present to. As adults we also focus on the sentimental value of a gift. We might choose something that has a special meaning or significance to the relationship they share with the recipient. It could be a piece of jewellery that symbolizes their bond, a photo album filled with precious memories, or a handwritten letter expressing their feelings. There is a wide variety of DIY projects on YouTube that you can actually do at the comfort of your own home, buying only a few necessary supplies. A hand crafted gift is one of the most special gifts I’ve ever received in my life.
All in all I feel that we as adults put a lot of thought and consideration into choosing gifts for others because we want to show our affection, make them feel special, and give something meaningful and memorable. It’s not just about the gift itself, but the thought and love that goes into selecting it. Giving gifts is a way of expressing love and strengthening the bond between people, and that’s why we focus on choosing the perfect presents for the people we want to say something important to. I’d say that adults are the most efficient group of gift-givers. Not only do we usually have less financial limitations than youngsters but we also actually put a lot of thinking into choosing the right thing.
Let’s dive now into the world of gift giving by our beloved seniors. When they decide to choose gifts for other people, they embark on a journey of thoughtfulness and generosity. Despite their age, they possess a wealth of experience and wisdom, which they use to select presents that will bring joy and warmth to the hearts of their loved ones.
Seniors often focus on selecting gifts that reflect the recipient’s interests and preferences. They pay attention to details and nuances, carefully considering what will resonate most with the person they are gifting. Whether it’s a hobby, a passion, or a cherished memory, seniors aim to capture the essence of the individual in the presents they choose. I believe that our golden agers understand the importance of practicality when it comes to gift-giving. They often opt for items that are not only thoughtful but also useful in daily life. Whether it’s a cozy blanket for warmth, a gardening tool for tending to plants, or a recipe book for culinary adventures, seniors prioritize gifts that will enhance the recipient’s day-to-day experiences. They also place great value on the sentimental aspect of gift-giving. They recognize that a heartfelt gesture can have a profound impact on the recipient’s emotions. So they often incorporate personal touches into their gifts, such as handwritten notes, family heirlooms, or handmade crafts, to convey their love and affection in a meaningful way. Don’t we all have that one handmade pillow case that our gran knitted for us? or a scarf she’s made? My grandparents are long gone but up to this day I’m keeping all the little and thoughtful gifts they gave to me over the years. I’d say that the elderly members of our society embrace the opportunity to share their wisdom and memories through the gifts they give – once I was given a hand carved family tree by my grandfather – it’s still on my apartment wall and anytime I look at it I can hear my pa’s roaring laughter and odd jokes – it’s beyond precious. Grannies and grandpas may pass down treasured possessions, impart valuable advice, or recount stories from their own lives, all of which enrich the gift-giving experience and create lasting bonds between generations. I hope I will remember and cherish all the material and non-material gifts that I was given by my grandparents.
To sum it all up I guess that the older generation approaches gift-giving with a blend of thoughtfulness, practicality, sentimentality, and wisdom. Their choices reflect not only their understanding of the recipient but also their desire to spread joy and love to those around them. Through their generous gestures, seniors demonstrate the enduring power of giving and the beauty of sharing kindness with others.
But closing this 2 part posts I’d like to say one thing – gift-giving is a common practice across all age groups and it is obvious that the way individuals choose presents for others varies based on their stage of life and personal experiences. Children may prioritize excitement and novelty, teenagers may balance self-expression with consideration for others, adults may focus on practicality and thoughtfulness, and seniors may emphasize sentimental value and personal connection. Regardless of age, the act of giving brings joy and strengthens all relationships, highlighting the importance of gift-giving in human interaction. I hope I have you another interesting portion of gift theory…. or… I gave you something to think about.
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