Hey!
This week we will talk about fatherhood. We want to praise all the dads around the world that make a difference. Growing up, I was so lucky to have a strong father that I knew had my back.
The knowledge that he would pick me up whenever and wherever was the ultimate proof of his love and care. Maybe he was not my emotional mentor but he taught me how to conduct myself, how to reason and how to make life as good as possible, regardless of my worries and problems. And that nothing comes for free. He also taught me the principle of give & get. He was a decent, warm hearted man with a lot of love to give. Despite his childhood and sorrows he prevailed and became a successful man. I truly miss him but I take comfort in the facts that his lessons and love lives on within me.
When I was about to become a father, I thought long and hard on what kind of father I wanted to be.I really felt sad I couldn’t share my thoughts and experience with my dad, but I wanted to make sure my daughter feels the same safety as I did. I also wanted to make her feel that she can talk to me no matter what. So I have set boundaries,I’ve been patient, tried to teach her in every situation and made my expectations clear. But most all, I have given her love and time. My dad’s teachings and words are with me during my fatherhood journey and his example is what picks me up and makes me try harder every day. He gave me the best trait ever: security. So wherever he is, I really hope he is proud of me as a father.
To sum it all up, I will share the advice I got from one of my dearest friends. He was a father for quite some time at that point and said that the instinct to protect might be stronger than the love at first. As dads we don’t know this tiny person as the moms do (after carrying them for 9 months). Regardless when you feel that special love and connection, it will change you forever. ‘
So please, think about what kind of a father you are. Remember that you set the example for how boys are supposed to behave and the standard that girls should expect. Be the best you can be and give all the love you have. And if you need help or worry, please reach out to other dads in your surroundings. Don’t chase the instant gratification but aim for the gratefulness you might receive when your kids grow up and become adults.
If you are going to be a dad in the nearest future I recommend the book:
You’re going to be a dad
Do your best and impact the future!
Take care & speak soon!
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